Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Very heart breaking post.

Sorry I have not blogged in awhile still getting back into the swing of things now that I am back to bein a stay at home mommy.
Just a quick post this time though. I have won a couple of giveaways here in bloggy land and am now the proud owner of a beautiful hand made, crocheted to be exact, purse and a pattern. I will blog with pictures of those as soon as I find time. But for now would just like to give a big Thank you to the ladies that had these giveaways, you know who you are, I will post about their blogs and my winnings asap.

Now onto the reason for the title of this blog. As some of you know I have lost both my parents. My daddy went home May 21,2006 and mama went home to meet him on October 14,2007 only a year and 5 months apart. Well a few months after we lost mama my middle sister started getting ill and her bones were starting to break and when I say starting to break I literally mean it just like that, as a matter of fact the reason she was admitted to the hospital was because during a doctors visit her arm just made a huge popping sound and she was rushed down to x-rays and her arm was broke. She was admitted and placed in ICU where test were ran. She was over 8 quarts low of blood and was almost on her death bed. They gave her blood and she started to look and feel better but found out that same day that she had Multiple Maloma a bone cancer and it was in the 3rd stage and there are only 4 stages of this cancer and the 4th stage is death. She began chemo and did very well actually exceptionally well you would have never known she was even on chemo. She had no hair loss, well very little and it was all on her legs and arm pits which was a blessing more than than a burden. She did chemo for several months and went back in for her last treatment and found out her cancer was in remission. PRAISE GOD was all we could say. And she was so happy to know she was out of the woods. Even though when she was her sickest she was ready to go home and be with the Good Lord and our mama.
She did well up until a couple of months when she went back in for a check up and found out her cancer was back and they told her that it was not good for it to come back a second time and sure enough it has been more so here in the last couple of weeks which I just found out about, and here in the last couple of days she has gotten worse, to the point of her not sleeping or eating and she is unable to walk across the floor without getting out of breath. I talked to her oldest daughter tonight and she told me that her mom looked really bad, no color, no appetite and her eyes are black underneth and sunk in. My neice also said she has been asking them to help her get arrangements made and they all feel like she is not going to make it much longer. She has a doctors appt. tomorrow and hopefully they will admit her and get her to feeling better.
Please keep all of us in your prayers, and say an extra one for her 2 daughters and grandkids they are taking this expecially hard. We have dealt with too much loss in the last couple of years and none of us want to do it again, if it is God's will. Her name is Debbie and your prayers are greatly needed. Thanks

15 comments:

Eclectic Pink Rose said...

Prayers are being lifted up right now. So sorry to hear this and my heart is going out to you all right now. Please keep us posted.
♥ Teresa

Queen Of The Armchair aka Dzintra Stitcheries said...

Prayers coming your way...My thoughts are with you...Dzintra♥x

Julia said...

Oh I'm so sorry! I will send prayers for her, you, your nieces and her grands. You have become a very dear person to me even thought we've never met.

Trudy Callan said...

I am so sorry to hear this. I know just how heartbreaking this is. I am in the midst of mourning. I lost a grandmother and my father six years ago. And this past Thursday, my other grandmother passed away. It is such a hard thing to go through, and it is so hard to see them suffer. I will be praying for your sister, you and her children and grandchildren. I will pray that she will not suffer and that God would heal her. Again, I am so, so sorry for you all.

Omega said...

I will be praying for you, your sister and your family. Sorry you all are going through this. God Bless You!

JC said...

Hello. I will pray for you and your family that the Lord's will is done and that the Lord would comfort your sister and your entire family during this difficult time.

Faye Lewis said...

Your sister, her children and you are in my prayers.

Sharon said...

I'm so sorry to read this about your sister. I'm lifting Debbie, and all family in prayer now. Please keep us posted.

Stephanie @ My Answered Prayer said...

I'm so sorry...I'll be praying!

Marjie said...

I am so sorry about your sister. The waiting is so much harder than the loss, IMHO. Enjoy every time you get to see Debbie, and cherish her children and grandchildren, too, for they will need it.

djStoreRoom said...

I am sorry to hear of all your loss.. Its indeed a difficult time for you and your family. Stay strong, and cheer up for your sister. Cherish the time with her.. Prayers will be sent to Debbie and all of you.. *hugs*

Regards
Diana

Barbara at Cat Fur Studio said...

I am sorry to hear this. Will pray for your sister and all your family.

clare's craftroom said...

All my very best thoughts are with you and Debbie and your families .xxx

window dressing said...

My heart and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. I lost my dad to cancer 6 years ago and then my uncle 5 years later. My faith in God and the support of my family helped me immensely.
Banding together like you have as a family will help you persevere.

Kat said...

A popular sherriff in a neighboring town had the same type of cancer. Right now he is doing okay, but went through a terrible time. He used to come to my kids' elementary school to do presentations and is well loved in the community. Prayers for your sister.